A few days ago, I read an article that detailed the financial difficulty that an increasing number of students faced while trying to pay for graduation expenses such as a cap and gown. I can understand the financial hardships of families who have lost their income, but the skeptic in me wonders if many of the students would be better served by more creative or fiscally prudent adults in their lives. Don’t get me wrong, the class ring, senior trip, senior pictures, graduation announcements, and prom can add up to hundreds of dollars that many parents can’t afford. My mother was unable to purchase a class ring for me, we couldn’t afford the senior trip, and I printed my own graduation announcements—so I understand the meaning of “low funds.” But the amount of money that the article referred to as a “luxury” was a bit shocking—$38.
I admit, maybe I am simply an out-of-touch Washingtonian…but $38? I hate to sound insensitive, but, didn’t they know that graduation costs some amount of money? You don’t need the class ring and you don’t need the senior trip; and although the ceremony is optional, if you want to walk across the stage, you need to purchase or rent a cap and gown. This is not a secret. I wonder, among the students whose parents couldn’t afford the regalia, how many have cable TV? How many of the students have a cell phone? How many students and parents decided to tap into their creative side and fundraise (i.e., car wash, bake and sell desserts, etc.)?
Perhaps this goes without saying, but if they are having difficulty with producing $38 for graduation, how are they going to make it in college? But I digress. My alarm stems from a belief that their difficulties are not simply rooted in the current economic climate.While this may hold true for a few of the students, the larger issue is planning for our children’s future. Let’s be clear, I know a few things about “making a way out of no way.” Even if students must work part-time, even if parents must borrow money from relatives (which is not uncommon), even if families must be challenged and stretched beyond their comfort zone…they should find a way for their children to participate in one of the most important events in their lives--graduation. This should be one of their priorities. Before purchasing the latest tennis shoes. Before paying the cable bill. Before a lot of the foolishness that shall go unnamed in this commentary. Of course, I don’t know if the parents in this particular article participated in financial foolishness or not. But it does not matter. I know that $38 should not be a financial hindrance to graduation, and making education a priority—including the symbolic importance of the graduation ceremony—is priceless.
Additional Resources
http://www.newsvine.com/_news/2009/05/21/2851097-caps-and-gown-costs-too-steep-for-some-seniors#comments
http://thecollegesolutionblog.com/2008/11/13/paying-for-college-in-hard-times/
Crecilla Scott is the founder of Infinity Research, LLC, a social science research company in the Washington DC area. She is the host of a local TV show, "Conversations with Crecilla." She is also a passionate speaker, who has given professional presentations for various organizations and federal agencies. She can be reached at Crecilla@liukarama.com.



